I’m a firm believer that if you’re interested in a guy you shouldn’t wait around, instead go ahead and make that first move. It’s 2018, we no longer have to wait around for men to approach us, we can take the lead if we want to. However, I also see how it could be a little awkward and uncomfortable, especially if you don’t know the guy very well and therefore you don’t know if he’s even interested or not. And while rejection is a normal thing and we should all learn to cope with it and move on, nobody really wants to face rejection. So here are a couple of tricks that you can use around the guy you like to see if he’s interested before you decide if you should make your move.
1. Make Eye Contact
It’s one of the oldest tricks in the book. If you make eye contact with a guy across the room and he doesn’t look away it’s a good sing. It works pretty much the same if you’re already talking to him. Just look him in the eye and continue the conversation, if he doesn’t look away, smiles or blushes – you know he’s into you.
2. Smile At Him
Smiling at a guy and seeing if he reciprocates is another good way of seeing whether he’s interested. If a guy completely ignores it, or looks away – he’s probably not interested. But if he smiles back and keeps looking at you it’s a pretty good indication that he likes you.
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